Nine Ways To Manifest More Love Into Your Life

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Being single doesn’t mean your life can’t be full of love. You can fill your life with love for yourself, love for your family, and love for your friends. Opening your heart and your life to let love in could even help you make some room for a romantic life, even if you’re used to being single. 

9 Way To Manifest More Love

1. Bring love in by showing love to yourself. Make sure you’re practicing self-care to take the best care of yourself. Talk to yourself the way you would your best friend. Avoid negative talk about your own body or character and instead, focus on the parts of yourself you are proud of. (Ex. your generous nature or beautiful eye color.)  Love for yourself attracts more love from others. 
2. Put your wants out into the universe. If romance is something you want, make a list of everything you want in a romantic relationship. Don’t write down physical attributes or the names of anyone specific. Instead, focus on the nature of the relationship. You could list things like a lot of laughter, adventure together, and a sense of love and security. Putting out what you want helps you focus on the right kind of romance. 
3. Let go of the pressure. Society tells women that to have value, they need to be in a relationship, but this is simply not true. Let go of outside pressure to be in a relationship and remember that your life can be full and satisfying with or without a romantic interest. Whether you choose to focus on your career, family, friendships, or hobbies, your life can still be filled with joy and love.
4. Be firm about what you want. Don’t give your time to a romantic interest who doesn’t appreciate you. If someone doesn’t appreciate or respect you, don’t let them remain in your life. You have no space for a relationship that brings stress or sadness. 
5. Turn to magic. If you believe in using the universe to get the right kind of love into your life, you can ask the universe for love, to improve an existing relationship, or for self-love. Keep your goals clear in your mind, and the universe may just deliver. 
6. Put into the universe what you want to get back out of it. This means that by being positive and loving, you’ll get positivity and love in return. Work on being a good friend and a valued family member. Be the kind of work colleague you would like to have. This positive outlook makes your life ready to bring in more love of all kinds. 
7. Maintain your friendships. It’s easy to get excited in the early stages of a relationship and to ditch your friends in favor of spending all your time with your new partner. Try not to do this and keep making time for your friends. If not, you’re sure to regret neglecting your friendships later. Why not make time for both your friends and your partner by hosting dinner parties or relaxed game nights? Your friends can get to know and love your partner as much as you do! 
8. Identify what’s missing and find a way to counter it. For example, are you seeking romance because you want a companion to support you? This gap can be filled with a supportive friend or family member. Share your dreams and fears with someone close to you that you trust, and build a supportive bond that gives you that feeling of being a team, without needing a romantic partner. If you want a relationship because you feel lonely, fill your time with the company of your friends. You could even help other lonely people by volunteering with a local hospital or senior citizen home, reading to or playing games with the residents. This helps you relieve someone else’s loneliness as well as your own, and you’ll feel great doing it. 
9. Practice gratitude. Every night before you go to bed, take a few minutes to write down a short list of things you’re grateful for and some things that made you happy during your day. Think big and small for your list and note down anything from having your favorite snack in the fridge to hanging out with your best friend.